Why a Funeral Service Matters

McAlister-Smith Funeral & Cremation • September 7, 2020

Are you and your family trying to decide whether or not a funeral is the right decision? That’s an important question, and you may wish to speak with an expert before making the call.

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Many families find themselves wondering whether or not a funeral is really necessary. Do we have to spend the money? Is it absolutely essential to honor our loved ones? Is there any alternative to planning a funeral? These are all understandable questions. And while it isn’t absolutely necessary that you make funeral arrangements, it is still a really good idea. If you or someone you know is looking for funeral homes in or near Charleston, SC, you should know that there are professionals in your area who can help. Those professionals can begin by walking you through the process, discussing your options, and providing a wide range of additional support. So the good news is that you can make funeral arrangements without having had to do so alone. There really is someone prepared to handle many of the logistical requirements and other planning that might otherwise impose an undue burden. That’s important.



Why is a funeral so important? There are a number of reasons.



First, a funeral provides you and your family an ideal opportunity to continue the healing process. No, a funeral won’t make your grief or pain go away entirely. But it does create an opportunity to address certain emotions in the company of others who may be experiencing something similar. That can be incredibly valuable. Dealing with grief is never easy. And unfortunately, there is no single way to address it in full. But funerals have long provided families with the chance to grieve together and make some progress in the process. You should take that seriously during an otherwise difficult time. There is no way to make things easy, but funerals do make things better. Remember that they can also contribute to a greater sense of closure with respect to the loss itself. Again, it isn’t perfect. But it is something.



Second, funerals are an important opportunity to honor your loved one. Some of us don’t really want that kind of attention. Some would prefer an event that celebrates life. That’s completely understandable, and many funeral services can be adjusted accordingly. Every family is different. So every funeral should be different, too. But one way or another, the loss of someone who was beloved is a significant event, and it shouldn’t go unnoticed. People mean something to one another. A funeral is one way to acknowledge that meaning. Whether it is about saying goodbye, remembering the good times, or even saying thank you for certain contributions, funerals have long been an opportunity to simply do the right thing. It is the right way to treat those we love, and that’s important.



There are certainly other good reasons to plan a funeral. If nothing else, funerals are a great way to bring family and friends together for an important occasion. They provide those friends and family with a shared experience that can do far more than heal. It can create and strengthen bonds, encourage solidarity, and improve one’s well-being.



If you are interested in funeral homes in the Charleston, SC, area, consider reaching out to McAlister-Smith Funeral & Cremation. We take every family’s needs very seriously, and that means we go the extra mile when it comes to making funeral arrangements. If you aren’t sure whether or not a funeral is right for your family, give us a call.


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