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Do You Want A Private Memorial For Your Loved One?

McAlister-Smith Funeral & Cremation • July 3, 2022

As you plan memorial services for your loved one’s cremation, you can have something private or something public. Here are reasons that air on the private side.

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There are endless things you can do for a loved one after their cremation services in Mt Pleasant, SC and it’s always nice to honor the person with a memorial service of some kind. You might want to do something right away, or something down the road when you have the time to plan it. No matter what your timeline is for the memorial process, you will have to decide who you invite to the service. You can do something small, private, and intimate with just family, or you can open it to the public and invite the community and anyone who wants to attend. Here are some of the reasons you might go with a private memorial. 


It Would Be More Intimate


When you choose a private memorial service, things are going to be much smaller, which can make it feel intimate and special to those who do attend. You are gathering the people who meant the most to your loved one, and those who loved that person the most. You can livestream the service, if you want, or keep it completely private for those special family members.


You Could Avoid Drama


You never know what is going to happen when you invite anyone and everyone to a memorial service. If you want to make sure you are inviting only people you trust who will keep things focused on your loved one and not cause any drama, it can help to make the guest list yourself and keep it small.


Costs Are Lower


The more people you include in a memorial service, the more it is going to cost. If you have a larger service that is open to the public, you are going to need a venue that will fit anyone and everyone who might want to attend. You might need more food at the reception, more programs, and more of everything else, too. That will drive the prices up and you might not have as much to spend as you might need. When you keep the services small instead, you are going to keep the costs lower. That can help you to stick to a budget, but it can also help you to save money to spend on other things.


The Media Isn’t Involved


If your loved one was rather important to the community, there might be some media attention on their final services if it is open to the public. Some people don’t mind it and even welcome it because they want their loved one to be honored and recognized in that manner. Others want their loved one’s services to be private and just for them.


Your Loved One Was An Introvert


You know your loved one best and if they appreciated smaller gatherings because they were rather shy, or an introvert, then a small, private memorial service after cremation services in Mt Pleasant, SC can feel like just the right fit for their personality. You are going to want to honor them in that way.

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